Talking about Vatican II

I constantly have to educate "trads" about the pre-Vatican II Church, starting with using the 1917 Code of Canon Law to explain why you cannot call everyone a heretic and schismatic.
It's like the left's "everybody I don't like is Hitler" error.
It really kills me; it makes traditionalism look like a religion of fear and ignorance, easily exploited.
Right; we end up living down to our church